To Get Your Ex Back Don’t Don’t Have Sex With Them
So, you want to get your ex back?
You cook a meal, invite your ex around to talk over your situation, you’ve got a couple of bottles of their favourite wine!
You’ve made an effort to look sexy and you’re determined that you’re not going to be desperate or needy. Instead your plan is to come across as self-confident and someone coming to terms with the breakup.
Basically, you’ve engineered a situation where your ex will see what they’re missing! And to complete the picture, you’re going to have sex with your ex! Because when you do that, they’ll remember that they love you and if they don’t, you’re going to SHOW them how much you love them!
BIG MISTAKE!!!
The evening ends one of two ways:
- Your ex says no and you have an argument and your ex walks out!
- OR you have sex with your ex and they walk out straight afterwards or the next morning.
You’re left deeply hurt and frustrated and wherever you were at the beginning of the breakup, you’re right back there and worst!
Having sex with someone you’ve broken up with is a BAD BAD idea! Especially if you have serious thoughts about getting your ex back.
Because what sex does is it opens up the old feelings that you had/have for your ex and if they don’t share those feelings, they are always going to walk away when the sex is over.
Having them walk away all over again, makes it twice as hard to get them back, so you’re setting yourself back BIG TIME!
Sex is a classic sign of neediness and desperation and though they may well fill their boots if sex is put on a plate for them, your ex can very easily smell your neediness and your desperation, no matter how you try to fake it.
Instead, what you should be doing is sticking to the No Contact plan. That way you don’t appear needy and desperate.
Remember, exs hate to feel needed and they don’t want anyone who is desperate within a hundred paces of them.
Magic of Making Up
