“How To Get Your Ex Back?” Stop Being Needy!

December 1, 2008 · Filed Under Get Ex Back · Comment

If you want to know “how to get your ex back?” then the simple answer is to stop being needy and desperate!

There is nothing in the world that will drive your ex away as you being needy! Needy is desperate and desperate is verging on crazy – and no one likes crazy!

If you want to know what crazy looks like imagine turning up at your ex’s place of work and begging her to come out and talk to you via a tannoy! Yep, a very good friend of mine did this, and I had to sit him down and talk sternly to him after!

So here’s what’s going to stop you looking needy…

Go “NC” or “No Contact” as we experts call it! Trust me, this really is the key. Studies have shown that if you’re NC then you stand a 94% chance of not making yourself look needy to your ex.

Everyone says they can’t do NC because they can’t live without their ex, they just need to talk to them and see them! Okay, but if you follow that through to the logical outcome, then if you seriously “cannot live without your ex,” why would you then do the one thing that is virtually certain to drive your ex further away and maybe even for good?

If you’re 100% serious about getting back with your ex, then break contact immediately, go NC and you will straight away stop being needy.

Instead, you should stay strong and let your ex go and get on with your life. Let those around you see you as the strong and confident person that you are and pretty soon you will begin to believe yourself to be that strong and confident person and that needy and desperate crazy person will be gone!

Not only that, pretty soon when your ex doesn’t hear from you, they will start to wonder what you’re doing, who you’re with and once those questions start firing off in your ex’s mind, you’re one step closer to getting your ex back.

So again, let your ex see how strong and self confident you are, and they will feel inspired to get back with you.

Let your ex see how needy and desperate you are and they will head quickly in the opposite direction!

To complete your goal to get your ex back, I highly recommend you get hold of The Magic Of Making Up today! Not only will it help you with the NC rule, it will give you a complete workable plan to successfully get your ex back.

Good luck, Dana

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“Does My Ex Want To Get Back With Me?”

November 28, 2008 · Filed Under Get Ex Back · Comment

A woman called Sophie sent me an email a few days ago asking me that very question: “Does my ex want to get back with me Dana?”

Well I read through what she had written and it looked like her ex was showing classic signs of definitely wanting her back.

Here’s why:

He was seeking her out to spend time with her.
He would compliment her on how she looked.
He would even flirt with her on occasions.
And he was always very interested in what she was up to.

Needless to say Sophie felt thrilled, because she desperately wanted to get back with her ex, but something in her made her cautious and that’s why she sent me the email asking me “Does my ex want to get back with me?”

She’s right to be cautious. The last thing Sophie, or any of you reading this should do is to jump right back into a relationship with your ex and think the past will just go away, just because they are suddenly showing you some attention.

Instead the best thing to do is to play hard to get and continue your life as a single person. Whatever has spurred this new interest in you from your ex, could be short lived and if you jump on in there thinking it is going to be forever, then you might end up very badly hurt. So carry on doing what you’re doing and live your life.

Make sure that what you’re seeing isn’t only what you want to see!
If you feel that your ex is simply setting you up to use you for sex or something else, then stay away from them!
If you think your ex is just passing the time until someone else comes along, then be on your guard!
Don’t let your ex play you and pull you close again only to push you away, leaving you hurt and alone again.

All I’m saying is that some exs will play cruel games IF you let them. So make sure that you’re as sure as can be that you’re not dealing with someone who will hurt you over and over again just because they can.

So ask yourself the same question Sophie asked me “Does my ex want to get back with me?” and then ask yourself another one…