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“Does My Ex Want To Get Back With Me?”
A woman called Sophie sent me an email a few days ago asking me that very question: “Does my ex want to get back with me Dana?”
Well I read through what she had written and it looked like her ex was showing classic signs of definitely wanting her back.
Here’s why:
- He was seeking her out to spend time with her.
- He would compliment her on how she looked.
- He would even flirt with her on occasions.
- And he was always very interested in what she was up to.
Needless to say Sophie felt thrilled, because she desperately wanted to get back with her ex, but something in her made her cautious and that’s why she sent me the email asking me “Does my ex want to get back with me?”
She’s right to be cautious. The last thing Sophie, or any of you reading this should do is to jump right back into a relationship with your ex and think the past will just go away, just because they are suddenly showing you some attention.
Instead the best thing to do is to play hard to get and continue your life as a single person. Whatever has spurred this new interest in you from your ex, could be short lived and if you jump on in there thinking it is going to be forever, then you might end up very badly hurt. So carry on doing what you’re doing and live your life.
- Make sure that what you’re seeing isn’t only what you want to see!
- If you feel that your ex is simply setting you up to use you for sex or something else, then stay away from them!
- If you think your ex is just passing the time until someone else comes along, then be on your guard!
- Don’t let your ex play you and pull you close again only to push you away, leaving you hurt and alone again.
All I’m saying is that some exs will play cruel games IF you let them. So make sure that you’re as sure as can be that you’re not dealing with someone who will hurt you over and over again just because they can.
So ask yourself the same question Sophie asked me “Does my ex want to get back with me?” and then ask yourself another one…
“Or are they just playing games with me?”
Be careful!
Dana
To Get Your Ex Back Don’t Have Sex With Them
“How Can I Make My Ex Want Me Back?” You Ask!
Well first of all it’s not a lost cause! If your ex found you desirable and attractive before, they can again! Whether or not they will though, is entirely up to you and how you play this!
Does that sound like the power is all in your hands? Well if it does, good! Because it REALLY is!
So ”How Can I Make My Ex Want Me Back?” First of all make sure that you face whatever went wrong with the relationship. There are ALWAYS mistakes on both sides, but you personally have to own up to yourself just what you could’ve done differently.
Secondly spend some time sorting yourself out emotionally before you even make an attempt to get your ex back. You also NEED to give your ex time to miss you! This is crucial. How is your ex ever going to know they want you back if you don’t give them a chance to find out?
So go do something else for a few weeks: take a class, take a trip, get fit or just hang out with your friends.
The third thing you do, you do it when your head is straight and you’re not so emotional. You ask for a meeting with your ex and then explain how you feel and that you would really like a second chance.
It sounds too simple to work you think? Well no, it isn’t. Men and women respond to sincerity. If your ex feels that you are being honest and you have really spent the time working on yourself and trying to resolve the situation, they will respond positively.
If however, you want to leave nothing to chance OR you have a situation where time will not heal and you are desperate to answer the question “how can I make my ex want me back?” then the answer is simple really.
Check out The Magic Of Making Up. The power of the book is in no doubt. 30,000 couples worldwide have used it to reunite.
PLEASE: I would seriously urge you though, that if this is a relationship that is best left dead, then please do not even attempt to get the book. I mean The Magic Of Making Up has some powerful techniques in it and if you go off and rekindle a relationship that’s best left over, it will do no one any good.
Always wishing you well, Dana!
Magic of Making Up
