To Get Girlfriend Back – Part 2 of 3
So to get your girlfriend back you’re going to have to sit down and ask yourself how you communicated with her and indeed DID you communicate her?
Lack of communication and or NO communication is one of the major reasons that women give as an impossible reason. Remember what I said in Part 1 of this 3 part series: that a woman will leave a relationship when she can see no possible way forward! And if you’re a man who struggles to communicate with his woman, then you’ve got an uphill struggle.
When a woman talks about communicating with the man she loves, she’s not only referring to verbal communication, though that is vital. What she also means is communicating on the MANY other levels: e.g. making love, sharing a meal, a cuddle, a walk in the park. For a woman, communicating with her man is a way to develop REAL intimacy and a way to deepen the relationship.
Simply put, if a man listens to her and engages with her, a woman takes that to mean that he loves her!
So if a woman feels that the man she loves is not communicating with her because he can’t or won’t, then that is going to be a major problem for her and the way she sees the relationship.
It’s true that generally men and women are split on the amount of communication they need in a relationship. Men often say that women talk too much, espcially about trivia. Which is perhaps true!
But if lack of communication was a reason for the break down of your relationship and you want to get your wife/girlfriend/partner back, then perhaps look at it from her point of view.
If you show some interest in her and what she has to say on a regular basis, and in-turn share some part of your thoughts and dreams with her, then she is less likely to feel that you are not interested in her.
As always, this requires give and take and a level of giving! But if she’s worth it, it’s got to be worth it!
To Get Girlfriend Back – First Figure Her Out
To Get Girlfriend Back – First Figure Her Out
….Part 1 of 3
If your girlfriend has left you and you want to find a way to get girlfriend back, then it makes sense to figure out just what went wrong. I mean let’s be honest, there’s really no point in jumping straight back in until you begin to understand how women think and what women want.
So here goes…
There is really only ONE reason a woman leaves a relationship and that is that she cannot figure out a way to go forward within the relationship. The situation she finds herself in has to be such, that even though she’s spent time thinking it through and trying to make the situation work, she just can’t make the relationship work.
The good news for you though, is that there is always hope for you to get your girlfriend back. Because listen to this: 95% of couples who breakup COULD find a way back together if only one or both of them tried. So if you really want to get girlfriend back and you’re prepared to take the right steps, then the odds are on your side.
So Here’s What Went Wrong
1) She Didn’t Get What Was On The Label…
Or what she thought was on the label!
When a woman begins a relationship, she has an idea in her own mind of what she’s getting into and where it should go. A woman will start a relationship with a desire to get to know her man and she will look for signs from him that he is interested in her and interested in her life. If anything happens to make her think or feel that there is little interest in her, then doubt will surface in her mind.
She will also look for signs that the relationship is developing into what she expected it to and if that doesn’t happen, again the doubt will begin to surface in her mind.
Anything or anyone who makes her feel that the relationship is not working out the way she had hoped, will put doubt in her mind and when that doubt surfaces and continues to surface, it is very hard for her to stay in that relationship
Here’s What You Can Do
If you don’t know what your girlfriend expects(ed) from the relationship and you want her back, you’re going to have to find out. You’re going to have to ask her.
Whatever you find, ACT ON IT!
If she’s expecting that the relationship will go onto marriage, then you have to decide if that is what you expect and want and you then need to think about when you propose.
If she expects that you will take a round the world trip together and you want to do that, then start thinking about how the two of you can make that happen.
Get the picture?
Tips To Get Girlfriend Back
Your relationship has ended, you’re still deeply in love with your ex girlfriend.
You’re stressed, can’t eat, can’t sleep, you’re struggling to think about anything or anyone except her.
You’re even beginning to think about her dating another guy!
You’re desperately searching around for a way to get girlfriend back and everything you’ve tried so far as just pushed her further away.
Let me see if I can guess what you’ve tried to do to get your girlfriend back!
- Texting her around the clock!
- Calling her!
- Turned up at her home/her work without being invited!
- You’ve tried to get her friends on side!
- Thought of making her jealous by going out with someone else yet?
- Begged her to take you back, yet?
All of which failed miserably to get girlfriend back.
Here’s Some Tips That Will Work To Get A Girlfriend Back
- Give her some space when she leaves!
- Don’t contact her for at least a month. Definitely not until you’ve calmed down!
- Get out and live!
When you come to terms with the break up, that’s when you make contact with her and start the process to get girlfriend back.
Dana
Magic of Making Up
