How to Make Contact With an Ex
Broken up and wondering how to make contact with an ex? Well first of all be sure to give yourself plenty of time to sort your head out, especially if it’s been a rough breakup.
You’re going to need time to think, time to figure out what you want to do and then time to pick yourself up renewed and confident. Failing to take your time and get through these three points means that you run the risk of any contact with your ex being a failure and a waste of time. You’re really looking at least a month to get through all of this, longer if possible.
Once you’re sure that you’re ready, call your ex up on the phone and make the following conversation sound as casual and laid back as you possible can:
“You’ve had time to think!
And you think it would be good if the two of you could meet up someplace neutral for a quick coffee and have a chat!
As I said, don’t come on all heavy because that won’t work!
To make contact with an ex you then meet up, sit down and talk and explain your thoughts to your ex as well as you can. You don’t want this meeting to be a long one, just explain, apologize if you have stuff to apologize for and then ask for a second chance.
You then have to give your ex their moment to tell you what they think. Listen sincerely to what they have to say and make sure that you’ve understood their point of view, you don’t necessarily have to agree with them, but you have to make an effort at understanding them.
Then you tell your ex that you’re going to give them some time to think things over and you leave it at that.
No hysteria, begging, pleading or crying!
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