Want To “Get Guy Back?” Here’s A Quick Guide To Making Up
Just how do you go about the “get guy back” quest? How can you convince your guy, once he’s left you, to come back to you?
First off, accept that whatever the deal breaker was, you were both to blame. I mean, if you slept out on him, then whichever way you look at, he wasn’t giving you what you needed and that’s why you went looking. If he slept out on you, then it’s you who wasn’t giving him what he needed.
I know it’s not right to blame the one who was cheated on and that’s not what I’m doing, all I’m saying is that something was wrong and it takes two to make and keep something wrong.
If you want to get him back, you have to move on and forgive him. A lot of people talk about ‘forgive’, but you shouldn’t ‘forget’ and of course you will never forget, but if you’re serious about giving it another go with him – you’re truly going to have to forgive whatever he did!
If you have to say you’re sorry for something you did, then you’re going to have to do that and you’re going to have to mean it. In that sorry you’re going to have to explain why you won’t repeat your past behavior and you’re going to have to be convincing.
Guess what, if you want to get this guy back, you might have to do a little bit of chasing him. Not in a stalkerish kind of way with the million texts and the hounding, no! Just let him know you’re still there, you still love him and you’re going to give him a little bit of time and wait for him. This is about parking the ego and putting yourself on the line!
Always remember there’s no absolute. If he won’t or can’t forgive you, there’s a chance you might have to walk away. But that’s not always the end of the world, there are other guys and other relationships out there for you. Give yourself a bit of time and then start over fresh with a guy who will forgive and love you for who you are.
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Magic of Making Up
