How Well Did You Really Know Your Ex?
It’s a valid question and one you should sit and ask yourself BEFORE you even consider getting back with your ex.
Did you REALLY know your ex? Or did you simply enter into a relationship and find yourself in love with someone that it turns out you didn’t really know?
Too often when our partners do something we didn’t expect them to do we are left knocked for six wondering where the hell that kind of behavior came from! We never saw it coming, because the person who we loved and worshipped, who we built our lives around would never have cheated on us, hit us or just down right let us down in a big way.
Well it turns out that we think this because we never asked the right questions when we were getting to know them and or we didn’t hear or see the answers we were getting back.
As I was doing some research I came across a book by Michael Webb called 1000 Questions For Couples. Webb talks the need for us all to take the time to ASK the difficult questions and to LISTEN to the tough answers we get back.
The book has sections of what I call the ‘lovey dovey’ questions – you know the one’s you ask your partner “when was the last time you cried and why?” You know stuff like that.
But it also has some other questions where the answers just might be a deal breaker and save you a ton of heartache in the long run once you discover the deep dark past of your partner.
The book deals with, children, money, beliefs, morals and a whole load of other questions that if you ask me many more couples who are either in a relationship or thinking of making up and getting back together again, really need to ask each other.
You can find out more about this super big book of questions by going to Michael Webb’s website.
1000 Questions For Couples
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