To Get Girlfriend Back – Part 2 of 3
So to get your girlfriend back you’re going to have to sit down and ask yourself how you communicated with her and indeed DID you communicate her?
Lack of communication and or NO communication is one of the major reasons that women give as an impossible reason. Remember what I said in Part 1 of this 3 part series: that a woman will leave a relationship when she can see no possible way forward! And if you’re a man who struggles to communicate with his woman, then you’ve got an uphill struggle.
When a woman talks about communicating with the man she loves, she’s not only referring to verbal communication, though that is vital. What she also means is communicating on the MANY other levels: e.g. making love, sharing a meal, a cuddle, a walk in the park. For a woman, communicating with her man is a way to develop REAL intimacy and a way to deepen the relationship.
Simply put, if a man listens to her and engages with her, a woman takes that to mean that he loves her!
So if a woman feels that the man she loves is not communicating with her because he can’t or won’t, then that is going to be a major problem for her and the way she sees the relationship.
It’s true that generally men and women are split on the amount of communication they need in a relationship. Men often say that women talk too much, espcially about trivia. Which is perhaps true!
But if lack of communication was a reason for the break down of your relationship and you want to get your wife/girlfriend/partner back, then perhaps look at it from her point of view.
If you show some interest in her and what she has to say on a regular basis, and in-turn share some part of your thoughts and dreams with her, then she is less likely to feel that you are not interested in her.
As always, this requires give and take and a level of giving! But if she’s worth it, it’s got to be worth it!
To Get Girlfriend Back – First Figure Her Out
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