“Does My Ex Want To Get Back With Me?”

November 28, 2008 · Filed Under Get Ex Back 

A woman called Sophie sent me an email a few days ago asking me that very question: “Does my ex want to get back with me Dana?”

Well I read through what she had written and it looked like her ex was showing classic signs of definitely wanting her back.

Here’s why:

  • He was seeking her out to spend time with her.
  • He would compliment her on how she looked.
  • He would even flirt with her on occasions.
  • And he was always very interested in what she was up to.

Needless to say Sophie felt thrilled, because she desperately wanted to get back with her ex, but something in her made her cautious and that’s why she sent me the email asking me “Does my ex want to get back with me?”

She’s right to be cautious.  The last thing Sophie, or any of you reading this should do is to jump right back into a relationship with your ex and think the past will just go away, just because they are suddenly showing you some attention.

Instead the best thing to do is to play hard to get and continue your life as a single person.  Whatever has spurred this new interest in you from your ex, could be short lived and if you jump on in there thinking it is going to be forever, then you might end up very badly hurt.  So carry on doing what you’re doing and live your life.

  • Make sure that what you’re seeing isn’t only what you want to see!
  • If you feel that your ex is simply setting you up to use you for sex or something else, then stay away from them!
  • If you think your ex is just passing the time until someone else comes along, then be on your guard!
  • Don’t let your ex play you and pull you close again only to push you away, leaving you hurt and alone again.

All I’m saying is that some exs will play cruel games IF you let them.  So make sure that you’re as sure as can be that you’re not dealing with someone who will hurt you over and over again just because they can.

So ask yourself the same question Sophie asked me “Does my ex want to get back with me?”  and then ask yourself another one…

“Or are they just playing games with me?”

Be careful!

Dana

 

 

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