“Does My Ex Want To Get Back With Me?”

November 28, 2008 · Filed Under Get Ex Back · Comment 

A woman called Sophie sent me an email a few days ago asking me that very question: “Does my ex want to get back with me Dana?”

Well I read through what she had written and it looked like her ex was showing classic signs of definitely wanting her back.

Here’s why:

  • He was seeking her out to spend time with her.
  • He would compliment her on how she looked.
  • He would even flirt with her on occasions.
  • And he was always very interested in what she was up to.

Needless to say Sophie felt thrilled, because she desperately wanted to get back with her ex, but something in her made her cautious and that’s why she sent me the email asking me “Does my ex want to get back with me?”

She’s right to be cautious.  The last thing Sophie, or any of you reading this should do is to jump right back into a relationship with your ex and think the past will just go away, just because they are suddenly showing you some attention.

Instead the best thing to do is to play hard to get and continue your life as a single person.  Whatever has spurred this new interest in you from your ex, could be short lived and if you jump on in there thinking it is going to be forever, then you might end up very badly hurt.  So carry on doing what you’re doing and live your life.

  • Make sure that what you’re seeing isn’t only what you want to see!
  • If you feel that your ex is simply setting you up to use you for sex or something else, then stay away from them!
  • If you think your ex is just passing the time until someone else comes along, then be on your guard!
  • Don’t let your ex play you and pull you close again only to push you away, leaving you hurt and alone again.

All I’m saying is that some exs will play cruel games IF you let them.  So make sure that you’re as sure as can be that you’re not dealing with someone who will hurt you over and over again just because they can.

So ask yourself the same question Sophie asked me “Does my ex want to get back with me?”  and then ask yourself another one…

“Or are they just playing games with me?”

Be careful!

Dana

 

 

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Do You Want To Get An Ex Boyfriend Back?

November 24, 2008 · Filed Under Ex Boyfriend · Comment 

I mean I started this site to help those who are seriously looking for a way to get an ex boyfriend back or get an ex girlfriend back, but just how do you know if you should even be looking for a way to get your ex back?

Let’s be honest, there are some relationships that are best left ended and over.  Relationships that involved physical and emotional abuse, that meant you were the third person intruding into an established relationship, relationships that didn’t allow you to be you and flourish in an atmosphere of respect and good will.

Trying to get any of those relationships rekindled is not a good idea and could even be physically and or emotionally dangerous, for one or both of those involved.

So before you set off and use some of the resources that I’ve suggested on this site, make sure that you ask yourself some serious questions and then you sit yourself down and answer them honestly.

Should you be really looking for a way to get your ex back?

If you’re sure getting your ex back is right for you, then go for it!  Act now and get your ex back with the wonderful The Magic Of Making Up.

Dana

 

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To Get Girlfriend Back – Part 3 of 3

November 17, 2008 · Filed Under Ex Girlfriend · Comment 

Intimacy, or a lack of intimacy, is one of the reasons that many women say is one of the reasons for leaving a relationship.  So if your girlfriend/wife/partner has said that she can’t handle the lack of intimacy within the relationship then you’re going to have to do something about it, IF you want to get her back or keep her.

But just what in intimacy and how do make sure your relationship if flourishing with it?

Many men confuse intimacy with sex.  Sex has it’s place when talking about intimacy but it is not the only way for intimacy to be expressed within a relationship.  You need to think about intimacy as a way to stay close and connected to your partner. 

Examples Of Intimacy

  1. Holding hands in public, if you’re comfortable with it!
  2. A stolen kiss!
  3. A text message when your lady least expects it!
  4. Running her a bath and making sure she has an hour without interruptions from the phone or the kids!
  5. Telling her how lovely she looks, without being prompted.
  6. Making sure that she is satisfied sexually and not just thinking about your satisfaction first and foremost.

The trick then is to make sure that your lady feels appreciated and is reminded regularly just how much you love and care for her and just how much her happiness and well being means to you.

If you can manage to ramp up the level of intimacy in your relationship, then you are on the road to a happier relationship and what you get back in return for giving to your lady will be a woman who loves and respects you.

 

To Get Girlfriend Back – Part 2 of 3

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