Why Men Have Affairs
So he had an affair and you want to know why? You want to know if it was your fault, could you have done something different, even though in your eyes you did nothing but love him?
Well the truth is probably, yes! You could’ve done something different!
This isn’t about laying the blame at the “wronged woman’s” feet. I mean, there are ALWAYS going to be men who just can’t keep it in their pants.
Put those men aside and believe this, many men will leave a relationship, physically or emotionally when they are not getting what they NEED! It’s obvious really isn’t it?
But What exactly does that mean?
Well a man NEEDS to feel he’s king of all that he surveys, anything or anyone that makes him feel less, then he’ll back away at a million miles and not look back.
Yeah I know again, it’s not PC, but men aren’t PC when you get down to the basics of their makeup. On a purely primal level they live by rules that even they have problems with. Make your man feel like he’s king and he’s with you for life!
But Please Don’t!
- Become a doormat and avoid voicing your opinions.
- Doen’t lose yourself in the blur of pleasing his every whim!
Do!
- Hold onto the vital and strong woman that you are while as you find ways to make him feel like the strong, confident man he is.
I tell you who explains and writes about this much clearer than I do, T Dub Jackson from The Magic Of Making Up Click Here For More Info.
When I read his take on this, it struck a chord with me. In past relationships I’d been left wondering “why?” Reading T Dub’s words on this, which are on p5 of the book, a light bulb went on in my head.
Lance that boil before it even rears it’s ugly head, that’s what I say every time!
Here’s to your happiness!
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