To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back…

October 5, 2008 · Filed Under Ex Boyfriend

…here’s 4 Things To Consider

Let’s be honest, getting dumped by your boyfriend when you still love him is the pits! To then realise that you could’ve done things differently, is heartbreaking!

So before you head off trying to get your ex boyfriend back, it would good to figure out exactly what went wrong.

4 Things To Think About

1) Jealousy!

If this was a problem that tore you and your boyfriend apart, then you need to find a way to stop.

Men don’t like jealous women. They see them as high maintenance, particularly when there’s NOTHING to be jealous about.

2) And in just the same way, men struggle with clingy women. Going through his cell/mobile is a big no no!

Men love independent and confident women who will give them space to be who they are.

3) Men don’t like being the emotional crutch in a woman’s life!

If you have to express every emotional angst going on in your life with her boyfriend, you’re probably going to drive him away. Talk to your girlfriends about the small stuff and leave the big life altering stuff to share with him!

4) The big one! Men really hate women using sex as a weapon.

Makes sense that if you’ve had an argument you’re not going to be in the mood to get intimate straight away, but really think about this – if you’re still withholding sex after you’ve made up, is it worth you asking yourself why?

Perhaps the reason that you and your boyfriend broke up isn’t one of the 4. Here’s what I’m thinking: it doesn’t really matter that your reason is not on the list.

All you really need to do to get boyfriend back is to stop and think and seriously see if there is anything you could’ve done differently to stop the break up?

If all else fails and you still don’t know where to turn, then perhaps the book The Magic Of Making Up is just what you need. Just click on the blue link right below to go the writer’s page!