Get Ex Back – What Kind Are You?
…Arguer that is?
No doubt a certain level of arguing in any relationship is natural. But if you’ve broken up because of constant arguing, then you need to figure some stuff out.
Peacemaker
If you go around making peace when an argument flares up and don’t say what you think, you’re a peacemaker. You don’t like arguments and you emotionally freeze when they happen.
To get your ex back, you might need to accept that arguing is part of every relationship. You might, for want of a better phrase, need to “get real” and deal with your relationships on a more realistic level.
Slow Drip
You won’t come out and say what’s wrong. Instead you drop hints, until your partner finally has to ask you what the problem is.
This can drive your partner crazy. If you want to get your ex back, then it’s better to just come out and say what’s wrong and sort it out.
The Happy Striker
You can’t wait to get in there with your point of view and ”no one’s gonna get the better of you!”
Take your time! If your ex left because you were quick to temper, then to get your ex back you need to count to 10. If you’re seriously struggling, then think about talking to someone.
The Sponge
Can’t cope with any kind of confrontation? Instead you try and soak up the stress of an argument? Not giving your opinions isn’t good. Resentment and rage build up. Instead, calmly explain what you think and listen to what your partner has to say.
If you want to get your ex back, then figure out which kind of arguer you might be and then work to towards better!
Always wishing you happiness and success in your relationships.
Dana
How To Stop Arguing – About Sex
Why Men Have Affairs
So he had an affair and you want to know why? You want to know if it was your fault, could you have done something different, even though in your eyes you did nothing but love him?
Well the truth is probably, yes! You could’ve done something different!
This isn’t about laying the blame at the “wronged woman’s” feet. I mean, there are ALWAYS going to be men who just can’t keep it in their pants.
Put those men aside and believe this, many men will leave a relationship, physically or emotionally when they are not getting what they NEED! It’s obvious really isn’t it?
But What exactly does that mean?
Well a man NEEDS to feel he’s king of all that he surveys, anything or anyone that makes him feel less, then he’ll back away at a million miles and not look back.
Yeah I know again, it’s not PC, but men aren’t PC when you get down to the basics of their makeup. On a purely primal level they live by rules that even they have problems with. Make your man feel like he’s king and he’s with you for life!
But Please Don’t!
- Become a doormat and avoid voicing your opinions.
- Doen’t lose yourself in the blur of pleasing his every whim!
Do!
- Hold onto the vital and strong woman that you are while as you find ways to make him feel like the strong, confident man he is.
I tell you who explains and writes about this much clearer than I do, T Dub Jackson from The Magic Of Making Up Click Here For More Info.
When I read his take on this, it struck a chord with me. In past relationships I’d been left wondering “why?” Reading T Dub’s words on this, which are on p5 of the book, a light bulb went on in my head.
Lance that boil before it even rears it’s ugly head, that’s what I say every time!
Here’s to your happiness!
To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back…
…here’s 4 Things To Consider
Let’s be honest, getting dumped by your boyfriend when you still love him is the pits! To then realise that you could’ve done things differently, is heartbreaking!
So before you head off trying to get your ex boyfriend back, it would good to figure out exactly what went wrong.
4 Things To Think About
1) Jealousy!
If this was a problem that tore you and your boyfriend apart, then you need to find a way to stop.
Men don’t like jealous women. They see them as high maintenance, particularly when there’s NOTHING to be jealous about.
2) And in just the same way, men struggle with clingy women. Going through his cell/mobile is a big no no!
Men love independent and confident women who will give them space to be who they are.
3) Men don’t like being the emotional crutch in a woman’s life!
If you have to express every emotional angst going on in your life with her boyfriend, you’re probably going to drive him away. Talk to your girlfriends about the small stuff and leave the big life altering stuff to share with him!
4) The big one! Men really hate women using sex as a weapon.
Makes sense that if you’ve had an argument you’re not going to be in the mood to get intimate straight away, but really think about this – if you’re still withholding sex after you’ve made up, is it worth you asking yourself why?
Perhaps the reason that you and your boyfriend broke up isn’t one of the 4. Here’s what I’m thinking: it doesn’t really matter that your reason is not on the list.
All you really need to do to get boyfriend back is to stop and think and seriously see if there is anything you could’ve done differently to stop the break up?
If all else fails and you still don’t know where to turn, then perhaps the book The Magic Of Making Up is just what you need. Just click on the blue link right below to go the writer’s page!
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